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How to play tug safely with a dog

Tug has a reputation it does not deserve. The worry that it makes dogs aggressive or teaches them to dominate their owners is not what the research shows, and the AKC's trainers recommend it for focus and impulse control. What makes tug safe is structure: a clear start, a clear stop and a dog that lets go because letting go pays.

Two Jack Russell terriers race across a park lawn, one carrying a purple ring toy.

Before you start

Before you start, choose a long, soft toy and check the dog is sound enough to pull

The toy matters more than people think. The AKC's trainer recommends one with some length to it, made of a material that is easy on teeth and gums, so your hands stay well away from the dog's mouth. A fleece or rubber tug the length of your forearm, with a handle at your end, does the job; a short ball on a rope puts fingers in range. Keep the tug toy for tug only, stored out of reach between games, so it stays special and you decide when the game exists.

Then check the dog. Puppies and senior dogs get light resistance only, and a dog with an existing injury should not tug until the vet says so; a canine fitness trainer quoted by the AKC has seen tug injuries in dogs that were already hurt. Some dogs simply do not enjoy tug, and that is fine. Skip it with a dog that guards toys, stiffens when you reach for one or growls with a hard stare, and talk to a trainer first.

  • A long toy with a handle at your end
  • Kept out of reach between games
  • Light pulls only for puppies and older dogs
  • No tug for an injured dog or a toy guarder

The steps

Seven steps build tug with a start word, a drop and a pause for teeth

Teach the drop through the game itself. The AKC's drop-it method is simple: tug for a few seconds, then go completely still. A dog tugging against a statue gets bored and lets go, and the moment it does, you praise and start the game again, so letting go is how the fun continues. Once the dog drops as soon as you freeze, add the word. Our drop it how-to takes the cue further, to things you keep and finds on the beach.

Keep rounds short. The AKC's trainers suggest sessions of ten to fifteen seconds with two or three tugs, then a calm thinking exercise and a treat before the toy goes away. Tug side to side rather than up and down, with all four of the dog's feet on the ground and its spine in a neutral line, and let the dog pull harder than you do. Your job is to be the anchor, not the opponent.

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    Hold the toy still near the floor, say your start word, and let the dog grab it.

  2. 02

    Tug gently side to side for a few seconds, keeping the toy low so the dog's front feet stay down.

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    Go completely still with the toy against your leg and wait in silence until the dog lets go.

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    The instant the jaws open, praise, say the start word and play again, so the drop earns another round.

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    Once the drop comes as soon as you freeze, say drop just before you go still.

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    If teeth touch your skin or sleeve, say oops, put the toy behind your back for half a minute, then offer it again.

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    After two or three rounds, ask for a sit or a down, pay with a treat and put the toy away.

Impulse control

Tug builds impulse control rather than aggression, because every round asks the dog to wait and let go

The fear about tug comes from old ideas about dominance, the notion that a dog that wins a tug game thinks it outranks you. A 2003 study by Rooney and Bradshaw filmed 50 dogs playing with their owners, then tested each pair for an hour. Tug and fetch went with higher scores for confident interaction with people, and winning or losing made no consistent difference. The AKC's article adds that letting your dog win builds rapport rather than a power grab.

What the same study did flag is who starts the game. Dogs that started most of the games were less amenable and more likely to show aggression in the tests, which fits the rule that you do the inviting. The impulse control comes from the structure: the dog waits for the start word, lets go on drop, stops when teeth slip, and settles afterward. Played that way, tug is the switch-on, switch-off exercise that excitable dogs need most.

  • You start the game; the dog does not demand it
  • Letting the dog win now and then is fine
  • Drop, wait and settle are built into every round
  • The game ends calm, with the toy put away

Mistakes we see

The mistakes we see are lifting the dog off its feet, chasing a dog with the toy and playing to a frenzy

Swinging a dog off the ground by the toy looks impressive and loads the neck and spine in a way the fitness trainer quoted by the AKC warns against. Keep the pull side to side and low. Chasing a dog that runs off with the toy is the second slip: the AKC's trainers say never to chase, because the chase becomes the best game and the drop stops mattering. Walk away and bring out a second toy instead; most dogs come back to the person who is still playing.

Playing until the dog is frantic is the third. Long, wild sessions push arousal past the point where the dog can let go or keep its teeth on the toy, and that is when hands get nipped. Children should tug only with a dog that drops reliably, with an adult in the room and a short-rounds rule. And when two dogs share one tug toy, watch closely and split them up the moment either one stiffens or stops letting go.

When to call us

Call us when tug ends in nipping or guarding, or when you want it to power training

Tug is one of the best rewards a trainer has, and it earns its place on Cape Ann. A long nor'easter weekend leaves a young dog with nowhere to run, and five short tug sessions in the kitchen use up energy without a single trip into the sleet. On off-season beach days, from October 1 on Gloucester's beaches at the time of writing, a tug toy on the long line makes a recall reward worth sprinting back for. Our leash-biting how-to puts the same toy to work on walks.

Call us if the dog will not let go, guards the toy, or nips hands often despite the oops rule. Polished Pup, the ten-week program, covers resource guarding and unpredictable high-arousal behavior, and Bright Beginnings builds impulse control from 4 months. Private sessions from $94 can set up tug as a reward for recall and loose-leash work. Gabriella Pope, our Director of Training & Canine Behaviorist, leads the team, and the training form gets a reply within the hour on business days.

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Asked and answered

Questions people ask about this

Short, complete answers you can act on today. More in the full FAQ.

Should I let my dog win at tug?
Yes, now and then. The 2003 study by Rooney and Bradshaw found winning or losing tug had no consistent effect on the dogs' later test behavior, and the AKC's article says letting a dog win builds rapport. When your dog wins, it often brings the toy straight back to restart the game, which is exactly what you want. Keep the start and the end of the game in your hands.
Is it normal for my dog to growl during tug?
Many dogs growl in play, and a loose, wiggly body, a soft face and a quick drop when you go still all point to fun. Stop the game if the body goes stiff, the eyes go hard, the dog freezes over the toy or will not let go when you stop moving. Those are signs of guarding or overarousal, and a trainer should see them before tug goes on.
Can puppies play tug?
Yes, gently. The AKC's trainers advise only light resistance with young puppies, and the same goes for older dogs with physical issues. Let the puppy do the pulling, keep the toy low and the rounds to a few seconds, and stop if it seems sore. Tug also gives a mouthy puppy a legal target while you teach it that teeth on skin end the fun.
Can tug hurt my dog's neck or teeth?
Played gently, it should not. The risk comes from yanking up and down, lifting the dog off its feet or tugging hard with a dog that is already hurt. Keep the spine level, pull side to side, and let the dog set the force. A dog with a known neck, back or dental problem should get the vet's go-ahead before you play.
Can children play tug with our dog?
Older children can, once the dog drops reliably and keeps its teeth on the toy, with an adult in the room. Give them a long toy, a two-or-three-tugs rule and the oops rule for teeth. Small children and big, excitable dogs are a poor match for tug; give that pair a calmer game, such as hiding treats around the room for the dog to find.

More questions? Read the full FAQ

Sources

Rules and dates change. We re-check every beach, licensing and ordinance page each spring and fall; the source above is the current word.

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