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Expecting a baby
Board and train before a baby arrives
A baby changes a dog's day more than almost anything else a household does, and most of that change lands in a single week. A training stay moves the skill-building to the months before, while you still have the time and the energy to learn the cues yourself. This page covers what the stay works on, when to book it and what remains your job afterward.
Timing
Book the stay for early in the third trimester, so the practice weeks fall before the due date
The third trimester is the right window because it balances two needs. The skills have to be in place before the baby comes home, and you need weeks afterward to run them yourself, in your own rooms, with your own voice. The ASPCA suggests introducing a dog to the new sights, sounds and smells about four months before the birth and adjusting its routine one to two months ahead. A stay early in the last trimester sits between those two marks, and it leaves a buffer for a baby that arrives early.
Which program depends on the dog. Foundation, one week, suits a young dog or an adult that never learned place, stay and a loose leash. Advanced, two weeks, suits an adolescent that knows its cues at home but loses them around distractions, and its two scheduled coaching lessons are useful to a household working toward a date. Gabriella Pope sets the dates at the consult. Every stay also needs the free evaluation, held on weekday mornings between 6:30 and 9:30, so book that while the drive is still easy.
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Second trimester: send the training form and describe the changes coming to the house
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Book the free evaluation for a weekday morning, with Rabies, DHPP and Bordetella records and the city license
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Agree the program and the dates with Gabriella Pope at the consult
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Early third trimester: the stay itself, with a written update each day
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Go-home lesson, then daily practice at the feeding chair, the nursery door and on your walking route
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Final weeks before the due date: keep practicing, and start no new training projects
Place while feeding
Place on a mat while you feed the baby is the skill a new household uses most
Place means going to a mat or raised cot and staying there, relaxed, until released. It is on the Foundation list, and for an expecting family it does the work of three rules: the dog is not under your feet while you carry the baby, not nosing the bottle and not pacing while you nurse at 3 AM. During the stay our trainers build it with marker training, paying the dog on the mat, then adding duration, distance and distraction one at a time, as the AKC's three Ds advise.
The transfer is the part you control. The ASPCA recommends keeping a mat or dog bed in the room where you usually feed the baby and handing the dog a treat or a chew during feedings, so quiet time with the baby predicts good things. At the go-home lesson you practice place with the trainer coaching your timing; at home you move the mat beside the feeding chair and rehearse with a doll in your arms. A long chew saved for feeding time makes a slow feed easier for the dog to wait out.
- A mat or cot beside the feeding chair, never in a doorway
- A chew or food toy that only appears at feeding time
- Release the dog with its word instead of letting it drift off
- Rehearse with a doll in your arms before the due date
Stroller walks
Stroller walks start from the loose leash taught in the stay, and the stroller joins at home
A dog that pulls toward every smell is a hazard beside a stroller, so the stay concentrates on the leash: walking on one side, a slack line paid with food at your leg and a turn-away when the dog forges ahead. Foundation teaches basic leash skills; Advanced proofs them around distractions on real-world outings, with the settings named in your dog's plan. If you want the trainer to see your dog beside a stroller before pick-up, raise it at the consult, where the plan for each dog is set.
The stroller itself is easiest to add after the go-home lesson, one change at a time. Push it empty around the kitchen while the dog eats, then walk the dog beside it in the driveway, then on a quiet street and only later on busier sidewalks. Gloucester's dog regulations require every dog to stay under its owner's control at all times, and beside a stroller that means a leashed walk. Hold the leash in your hand rather than clipping it to the handle, with the dog on the side away from traffic.
- Empty stroller pushed indoors while the dog eats
- Driveway first, then a quiet street, then busier sidewalks
- Leash in your hand, dog on the side away from traffic
- Short walks, ended while the leash is still slack
Sounds and the nursery
Baby sounds are introduced quietly and paired with food, and the nursery door gets its own wait
A newborn's cry is loud, sudden and frequent, and a dog that has never heard one may pace, whine or bark at it. The method is desensitization paired with counter-conditioning: a recording played so quietly the dog barely notices, a treat after each cry, and the volume raised over days only while the dog stays relaxed. The ASPCA recommends recordings of realistic baby noises paired with treats, and the AKC suggests playing crying sounds now and then and even carrying a lifelike doll. Whether a recording joins your dog's sessions during the stay is set at the consult.
The nursery needs a boundary rather than a banishment. If the dog will not be allowed in, the ASPCA suggests a sit-stay or down-stay at the door, or a gate, and the AKC says to reward the dog for staying outside the room. That is a wait at a threshold, which the stay practices at doors throughout our building. If the dog will be allowed in, a bed in a quiet corner gives it somewhere to be. Decide which version you want before the go-home lesson, so the trainer can coach that one.
Limits and updates
A stay is not the answer for a dog that worries about children, and the updates show what to keep practicing
Board and train builds skills; it does not change how a dog feels about small people. A dog that stiffens, growls or hides when visiting children come near needs a consult before anything else, and often a vet check, because a sudden change can come from pain. For that dog the work happens with you present: private sessions from $94, Calm & Connected for adolescents and adults with stranger concerns, or a Level 3 program such as React Less, Relax More. However well trained, no dog should be left alone with a baby; the AKC is clear on that.
For the right dog, the daily updates are a preview of your homework: how long place held, how the leash looked and how the dog took the sounds if they were in the plan. Read them with the due date in mind. After pick-up, our guide to a new baby and the dog takes over, with an overnight suite at $78 a night for the delivery days and a daycare and walking plan for the months after. From Rockport, Gloucester, Essex and Manchester-by-the-Sea, ask whether the Pup Van, $10 each way, can make the drop-off run to Eastern Ave.
- Good fit: a friendly dog that lacks place, stay or leash manners
- Consult first: growling, stiffening or hiding near children
- Vet first: any sudden change in how the dog tolerates touch
At Dogtown
Before the baby comes
Training for the months ahead, an overnight suite for the delivery days and the Pup Van for the weeks you cannot drive.
Pick-up & drop-off
The Pup Van comes to you.
Pup Van pick-up and drop-off is available for $10 each way in the Rockport, Gloucester, Essex and Manchester-by-the-Sea area. Not in the area? Ask us for pricing.
- Rockport
- Gloucester
- Essex
- Manchester-by-the-Sea
Asked and answered
Questions people ask about this
Short, complete answers you can act on today. More in the full FAQ.
How long before the due date should the stay end?
Should we choose Foundation or Advanced before a baby?
Can a board and train stay cover the birth itself?
Will the trainers use a doll or a stroller during the stay?
Our dog growls at visiting children. Is a stay the right first step?
More questions? Read the full FAQ
Sources
- ASPCA: dogs and babies
- AKC: expecting a new human
- AKC: duration, distance and distraction
- Gloucester dog rules
Rules and dates change. We re-check every beach, licensing and ordinance page each spring and fall; the source above is the current word.
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Next step
Train the dog before the nursery is finished.
Send the training form with your due date and your dog's age. We reply within one hour on business days and set the consult around your calendar.
- 01Free evaluationWeekdays 6:30 – 9:30 AM
- 02Book a dayOnline, in the app or by phone
- 03Play, rest, repeatReport card at pick-up